
Hi all. I hope everyone had a nice Valentine’s Day last Friday. Don’t we all deserve it right about now? My husband gave me these nice flowers and we went out to dinner, so he seemed to be buttering up the host of the Cue Card. I got him a couple cards. Meanwhile we’re still in a deep cold patch here for the foreseeable future. Brrr. I’m looking forward to March. But despite the frigid temps, I’m trying to keep active, so lately I’ve been playing some indoor tennis, doing spin classes, and following exercise routines on YouTube. I also walk the dogs wearing astronaut-kind of layers. What are you doing for your workouts lately?

And for my sanity from the news and baseless tariff threats I started a puzzle, which my husband and I finished last week. It’s a Canadian one — you can see the various places and brands and things that Canada is known for. Of course, puzzles can be wonderfully cathartic, stress-reducing, and addicting. You might pass by a puzzle thinking you’ll do a piece or two but pretty soon you’re there for over an hour and can barely pry yourself away for dinner, lol. We finished this 1000-piece one in under a week. I’m sure we’ll need another one soon.

I also picked up some library loot. I’ve been on the wait lists for these and unfortunately they usually come in all at once, which makes getting to some pretty impossible. But I’ve started The Safekeep and I also want to pick up Mina’s Matchbox. Some of these others I’m going to have put back and maybe get back another time. Intermezzo is a bit long so that might go back on the list. Have you read any of these, or do you plan to?
And now I’ll leave you with a review of what I finished lately.
The Friday Afternoon Club: A Family Memoir by Griffin Dunne / Penguin / 400 pages / 2024

3.75 stars. I had a hard time rating this one because I felt the first half was not that noteworthy and sort of immature with jokes and the author’s coming-of-age, but then the later second half was deeper and came on pretty strong. I’m not sure how many people these days know Griffin Dunne, but he was an up-and-coming actor in the 1980s (along with his sister) and was from a pretty well-known family — his father Dominick Dunne was a film producer, then a novelist and later a columnist for Vanity Fair, and his uncle John Dunne and aunt Joan Didion were famous writers.
I remember seeing Griffin Dunne in the movie American Werewolf in London in 1981, which I thought was scary and funny too — a terrific movie, and I liked him in After Hours (1985) too. His younger sister Dominque, who Spielberg told him was a real talent, was in Poltergeist in 1982, and he had a brother Alex who did some writing.
The three of them grew up in Hollywood and due to their parents and their parties knew various film stars around the hood. His mother divorced his father when he about 10, and Griffin was sent to a couple boarding schools for high school, where he was expelled for pot, but he came away with an interest in acting and moved to New York. There he became best friends with Carrie Fisher and was her roommate when she took the role for Star Wars in 1977. Still he struggled for years waiting tables and trying to get his break-through role.
Later in the book, things turn dicey for his family as his mother develops multiple sclerosis; his (closeted) father is fired as a producer and moves to Oregon to get sober; his brother struggles with mental illness; and his sister meets a controlling boyfriend who very tragically would be her demise. It turns pretty sad and moving. But Griffin writes pretty lovingly of his mother and his colorful father; trying to help his brother, and the memories of his beloved sister.
Good grief the family goes through more hell … when his sister’s killer is brought to trial in L.A. in August 1983. The cards are stacked against them with the judge and defense attorney and the fight for justice turns into a travesty. At the same time Griffin is filming the movie Johnny Dangerously with Michael Keaton, which gives him a small outlet. Personally, I don’t remember the trial at the time, but I would’ve been in SoCal getting ready to leave for college then. Hmm.
There’s only a few sprinklings of his aunt Joan Didion in this — I sort of thought there’d be more. But his uncle John Dunne comes off as pretty feisty in this (the two brothers Dominick and John didn’t get a long for many years and only reconciled later). And when the trial was going on, Joan Didion and John Dunne left for Paris, so that apparently their young daughter Quintana wouldn’t be called to testify, which didn’t sit well with Griffin and his family.
The memoir ends in 1990 when Griffin’s daughter with actress Carey Lowell is born. So I don’t know if he plans to write another book of his later life and career. But while this one touches on his family’s story and is in many ways a touching tribute to them, it still seems like Griffin’s story about his growing up years, sex life, and career in acting. There is some name-dropping along the way, but thankfully it’s not too overly done. I don’t often read such Hollywood kinds of memoirs, but I was a bit curious about the writers in their family.
I was also supposed to review Ruth Ware’s 2016 novel The Woman in Cabin 10, which I finished on audio, but I think I will wait till next time (I’m too long-winded already). I finally tried a Ruth Ware! lol. Her novel is coming out as a Netflix movie with Keira Knightley sometime in late 2025. And there’s a book sequel — thanks to Kay at Kay’s Reading Life for alerting us — of The Woman in Suite 11 coming in July. More of the infamous character Lo Blacklock!
That’s all for now. What about you — have you read any of these and if so, what did you think?